In life, everybody wants nothing but the best–go to the best schools, be with the best people, be the best in everything you want to do, have a great job in the best companies, eat the best types of food. That’s perfectly understandable, since everybody likes the good stuff in life. Of course, it usually happens that not-so-good things happen in life, and one of them is divorce. Divorce has been described variously by people who have gone through it as possibly the worst things they have experienced in their lives. Not only does it drain you emotionally (losing your spouse and having to face the fact that your marriage was an unfortunate mistake is not easy at all), but it also saps your energy, especially if you’re running around trying to get your life back on track. The divorce proceedings themselves are also far from being a walk in the park.